How to be a Good guy??
Shalom to everyone.. Im just back from mooncake festival.. I already tried my best to make this lantern festival a happy one.. But seems like it didnt hits my expectation… Not that the organizer not good enuf.. but I cant control myslf well enuf.. Keep all the feeling in my hearts.. make it burns so much and its hurt… I try to behave like nth happen, but some frens still can see tro me.. really sorry lar.. I tried my best to raise the mood up… Cant spend time to celebrate a special occasion with the one that u love, Its really a burden to be carried.. To think that she is spending her special moment with other guy, OMG.. Altho i said i will be her best fren, but the feeling is still there.. How many days should i take to totally forget about it?? how many months do i need? how many years are enough for me? Is it a mistake for me to declare that i will be her best fren?? Should i really forget her totally even as fren?? Sometimes i really want to be selfish.. care for nth else but my own feeling..
To all good guy out there, any recipe for me?? Or to all gal out there.. can let me know what u ppl really want?? I need something more practical.. something more logical.. Sorry that everytime i write my post..it will be sad or down one.. and i always ask for help… but i guess.. thats me rite?? come on..I said i will learn to let go..doesnt mean that i can archieve it in one day.. I really hope .. someone will support and care for me.. You wanna say that im desperate.. yes..im a kind of desperate.. desperate for care and concern..
JiNG
October 7th, 2006 at 8:34 am
hope u can fastly rocover back ur down mood. remember that all ur friends n me wil always support u. so, don’t juz think the negative portion of one thing. mayb back of it wil be a good arragement of God waiting 4 u…..Gambateh oh
October 7th, 2006 at 10:23 am
thank u… the things is coming back and forth.. still waiting for it to go away.. hehe
October 8th, 2006 at 11:53 pm
this shows that u did love her very much.u had done the role as a good boyfriend…now try to think in positive way…it’s she, herself didn’t has this blessing to have u…why not u forget her and wait for ur Mrs. Right?God loves us. He knows what is the best for us. He will make a way for us.Remember this.Good luck, Jim…
October 9th, 2006 at 7:37 am
love is like a circle that never fails to reach its start and end… memories and feelings will be there no matter how…
but.. what to do… just let time show us how..
i used to regret 3 years for someone.. and i know how it felt..
with the remnant of that feeling lying deep in your heart…
October 12th, 2006 at 1:42 am
I do not know for sure what had happened, but there seemed to be a bit of rejection but basically a lot of sadness involved.
I may not have much experience, but as far as my experience is concerned, I know that trusting in God and praying to him for signs would be best, you’d never know, your paths might cross again one day… move on with life, for everything in life happens for a reason, something to learn from them. I certainly learnt a lot from my experience. And trust me, as you’d love her, let her enjoy her happiness, and she cannot be more thankful and grateful to have you as a friend. Take care dude!